Saturday, February 12, 2011

Good-bye, My Love

Tom passed away this morning at 10:20. My mom and my friend Carla were in Tom's room when we arrived. Katie and I got lost on the way to the hospice which put us about 45 minutes later than we had planned on arriving. We walked in, hugged him, kissed him, talked to him and made sure he knew how much we loved him....he passed away five minutes later. He waited for us to arrive.

God, I miss him.

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

Lisa and Katie:

Tom was a great man and a terrific person, father, and friend. He will be greatly missed by everyone that knew him. We love you guys and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mark and Jessica

Anonymous said...

Lisa--I am so sorry for your loss. Tom touched many folks in such a positive way. We will all miss him.

You and Katie are in our thoughts and prayers.

John

Unknown said...

Lisa and Katie,

We are heartbroken. Tom was an incredible person and beloved friend. He fought so hard and you were a brave and wonderful team. We love you so much and are keeping you in our prayers.

Will, Patricia, Michael and Nicholas

Anonymous said...

Lisa,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I feel like I have gotten to know you and Tom through Katie, and I have followed your story since she was in third grade. So many people grieve with the two of you, and we are praying for you and your family. All my love,

Holly Oran

Unknown said...

I just found out about this yesterday from Facebook. I went to elementary school with Tom, and had completely lost track of him for the past 30 years or so.
He was a great friend to me, and I grieve with you on his loss. I am glad to know he touched so many lives though.
Your family are in my prayers.

TLSumner said...

Lisa, we are so sorry. Thank you for being so strong for Tom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Katie.

Brad & Tosha

Ted said...

Lisa and Katie,

Jennifer and I are so sorry to hear this news. We will cherish the smiles, wit, humor, life and friendship that he brought to us and everyone he came in contact with.

We remain here for you and Katie and are keeping you in our prayers.

We'll miss him, very much.

Ted, Jen and Charlotte

Anonymous said...

There will never be another one like him. They broke the mold after they made him. He was without a doubt one of the coolest people I will ever have the pleasure of knowing.

I love you Tom and while I'm not happy to see you go, knowing that you don't have to suffer any more helps to ease my loss. I'm going to miss you buddy!


Eric Chaney

Unknown said...

My heart goes out to you Lisa. Tom was a wonderful guy who was a positive presence for me when I was younger. He will be missed by many. The world will be a poorer place in his absence.

Bill Denis

Anonymous said...

Lisa & Katie,
We send our sincere condolences to you & your family. Just know that Tom is in a much better place not suffering anymore. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. I pray and trust that God will give you strength and courage to be strong for Katie and know that God will not give you more than you can bear!
We love you and don't hesitate to reach out so we can help you in any way you need.
Donna Bingham & Family

Anonymous said...

Tom was such an incredible person, and the earth is better to have had the short time with him. He touched so many people. I am simply stunned by this news. Lisa and Katie, you are such brave and strong souls, our thoughts are with you.

Chuck & Christine Konfrst & Family

Jason said...

I'm sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of meeting Tom around 6 years ago while working at IHG. He was one of the easiest guys to get along with, we hit it off right away. Genuine - is probably the best word to sum up Tom's personality.

Although we only crossed paths for a short period of time, I really enjoyed meeting and getting to know Tom. My prayers are with you.

Jason

Unknown said...

Sad, happy, sorry, reminiscing at the same time. Tom is loved and love to ya'll! Giving and receivng...~@:D

Pavan said...

Lisa and Katie:

Our heartfelt condolences. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

-Pavan Raj and family.

Anonymous said...

Lisa,
U don't know me but Tom and I went to H.S. together. He always made me laugh!! Surprised huh? My heart breaks for u and ya'll's daughter. Keep him alive in your minds and your thoughts. He is and will be missed by many!
Darien Smith

Julian said...

Lisa and Katie -

We are sorry for your loss, and will miss Tom - his humor, courage, love and friendship. He was one of a kind. You are both in our thoughts and prayers.

Julian and Winnie

Greg Dymerski said...

Lisa and Katie; I will continue to pray for you. I will dedicate my fight against this disease to Tom and all those who have been taken way too early. Please stay in touch. Greg

Jason Sluss said...

Lisa and Katie:

I realize that at this time words are so hollow, but please know that Ashley and I are praying for you, and we trust the Lord will wrap you up in his arms and comfort you during this time.

Never forget that we love you both so very much.

Jason and Ashley Sluss

Anonymous said...

I feel so blessed to have known Tom! He was so smart,talented,loving, and one of the funniest people I've ever known! HE had a huge impact on my life..... always in my heart...always loved him!!! I know he is at peace now. Thank you, Lisa and Katie, for taking care of him and loving him so much! He may not be here in body but I know he is watching over you right now and forever! All our love,

Chrissy andCara